I think that there's always an aspect of us that when we feel unloved in any capacity, in any relationship... when we feel mistreated, when we feel somehow disrespected, it's a natural reaction to want revenge. And I think that's what happens with most people, specifically in our most vulnerable stages when we're children ... It's really hard for the ego to not click into revenge. So, the problem is that when you seek revenge, you destroy yourself, and that's the paradoxical conflict that we all live in.